I felt, all along the time I have known Carol that she thought of and carried out actions so her son suffered as little as possible. It became clearer and clearer, the last time that the suffering took the place of the hopes for recovery. How to be close, how to accompany, cheer up, without unpleasantly imposing yourself in this situation?
The purpose of this blog is to offer to parents of children with a serious, chronic or disabling illness a place to express feelings and find support and comfort.
I don't wish to introduce any religious or spiritual connotation here but I hope that everyone will feel free to express their thoughts while respecting the beliefs of all participants.
I am the mother of a young man who passed away recently, after a 28 years battle against illness, but also, as he said himself, a rich and full life.
During his life I always felt the need for an official support group. I felt the lack of a sympathetic ear while looking for a place to express pain, doubts, hopes, and all the things that are part of the lives of parents of special children.
That is what I want to offer, hoping that your lives may become lighter from having shared difficulties with others who can hear you and understand you.
How to participate
It is easy! Scroll in the site and click on "comments" when you find a subject which interests you. If you just want to add something, write in the last subject's comments.
If what you express can be useful for others I shall make a new page for it, to open a discussion on the subject
Each of your comments will be read before being published.
If you want to message me in private, just type "personal message" in your comment. Easy!
Don't forget to read all the comments, some may be useful to you, or you might want to answer them.
Who am I?
Carol I am a nurse, mother of two boys. The elder one passed away in August 2008 from a long illness.
I felt, all along the time I have known Carol that she thought of and carried out actions so her son suffered as little as possible. It became clearer and clearer, the last time that the suffering took the place of the hopes for recovery. How to be close, how to accompany, cheer up, without unpleasantly imposing yourself in this situation?
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